Connie was being talked to by Sonny in language she understands...her body language and outlook on sex....he knew love would not do it but with her it is all about sex and hotness...he called her bluff today and it was SO very obvious that most got it immediately. He was purposely pulling her strings in the one area he knew was vulnerable. He knew he was right about Johnny not wanting her, and her need to be wanted....her way. LOL Then instead of pushing, he left it all in her hands. Love scares her away completely, she craves controlling and attention. She got attention and a choice.
THAT was really what was going on...psychological war games.