and I'm paraphrasing "It was stupid of me to not realized beforehand that I would have to have sex with him if I agreed to the meeting" and I felt so bad for her. Like, no, you are not obligated to sleep with any man for any reason ever. I do not care what he "expects", to hell with him.
I have experienced some mild trauma thanks to all the pervs in NYC who thought it was fine to grope and make salacious comments to a 14 yo girl. Only much, much later did I realized how it affected my behavior as a young adult.
And men wonder why we'd choose the bear. π€·ββοΈ