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It's truly the little things. I know how many siblings you have and all about your dad and your work history, but I don't know what random hobbies you might have or what clubs you belongs to in HS, so we all might have these weird pockets of knowledge no one knows about.

Ha! Well, my cousin had a really lovely wedding at a very prime Toronto location and it was very pricy. But they're still married and they're still bougie.

It is a low bar, but I think we all have those for weddings. Every dull speech I sit through, I think of the one where my friend's dad got boo'ed for saying "well, this is a day I never thought would come."

I get that the stress if outrageous. But it veers into mental illness at some point.

The ones that get me are the brides who want someone to dye their hair.

But I also think people are often dying on hills they do not need to die on, all the time. And those posts really seem to have entrenched certain ideas about weddings. Like the wearing white thing or announcing your pregnancy at the wedding -- or proposing at the wedding! These are all bad moves. Don't do them. But sometimes a bride has actually asked someone to do something and then people have this RABID reaction and the bride is like "I chose the white and blue dress! She's my bridesmaid!" or "I wanted my sister to announce her pregnancy!" "We gave the best man permission to propose to the MOH!" -- and once people have decided to be mad, they stay mad. Some people just cannot redirect once they are told they don't have a reason to be mad. It's wild.