aka lying when she has a ton of experience with how he feels about it--makes her a fool. It's no different than burning your hand on a hot stove. You know the last time your mom baked cookies--you touched the stove and burned your hand, you are a fool to touch a hot stove again.
No accountability. No saying she felt trapped. She tried to flip it on him by saying she feared the reaction she was receiving. Classic deflection. The reason she allowed herself to be blackmailed TWICE was self-preservation. Point. Blank. Period.