This is a soap opera. If people who have done bad things can't eventually call out others on their 💩 then confrontations would never happen on soaps. Everyone is a hypocrite. I mean cheating is a staple on soaps. Joss cheated on Cam and that played out on screen and eventually Cam forgave her. Did she really get enough backlash, not really. But she did get some and everyone then moved on. Willow and Drew did what they did, and they're currently being judged by everyone, as they should. But this too shall pass. At some point Michael/Sasha night will be revealed and Drillow will gloat and justify their affair and she'll probably get custody and everyone will move on. It's all cyclical on these shows. Right now it's their turn to get reemed by all the hypocrites. Eventually I bet Willow will judge someone for their behavior, because that's what happens on these shows...will she a hypocrite then, yes. Hell, she's already a hypocrite. As is Drew, Carly, Sonny, Joss etc....I mean, look at someone like Elizabeth, she was married to Lucky and banged his brother.....now everyone thinks she's too good for Lucky.
The worst part imo is that Willow and Drew don't seem the least bit bothered by their actions and are playing the whataboutism game. Their completely incredulous to people's reactions. If they were regretful or trying to fight their feelings..... If Willow didn't go from "I want my marriage, I love Michael" to "I'll go to Washington with you and bring Wiley." Maybe she'd get some sympathy. To me its just their behavior that is the most off putting for most viewers. This is the most hated couple I've seen in a while. I'm on X, YouTube etc....nobody seems to be on Drillow's side with this.